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Post by abbey1227 on Apr 24, 2022 18:41:54 GMT
A clerk one imagines is rude is nothing compared to say, cutting off a finger or falling 100 ft & surviving. Real trauma. Not inconvenience Lone my 3 fricken hours of labor on do not recall. Bits, like my husband offering me an ice cube or them bringing in that squat bar, but how there were.that many people in there or what the discussion was, I have no idea. There's a picture in the article of a dog bone like milk bone. So you remember you had a dog. You remember it died, but maybe you found it all mangled on the side of the road after it got hit. That part of the memory likely fades/gets blocked. You don't think the dog is still alive. Real trauma tends to scar people. You can see it in their flinch or their behavior later. I get some supress it to some degree, but there it is under the surface.
Jesus, merh. I'd NEVER forget that horrible discovery. My religious buddy just had to put 1 of the 3 baby cows his wife bought out of it's misery. It was too sick to feed and was suffering. But the main problem was he didn't really want more animals on their little farmette.......and cows happen to be his favorite. So even though he did it, he was practically welling up just telling me about it.
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Post by merh on Apr 24, 2022 18:52:51 GMT
A clerk one imagines is rude is nothing compared to say, cutting off a finger or falling 100 ft & surviving. Real trauma. Not inconvenience Lone my 3 fricken hours of labor on do not recall. Bits, like my husband offering me an ice cube or them bringing in that squat bar, but how there were.that many people in there or what the discussion was, I have no idea. There's a picture in the article of a dog bone like milk bone. So you remember you had a dog. You remember it died, but maybe you found it all mangled on the side of the road after it got hit. That part of the memory likely fades/gets blocked. You don't think the dog is still alive. Real trauma tends to scar people. You can see it in their flinch or their behavior later. I get some supress it to some degree, but there it is under the surface.
Jesus, merh. I'd NEVER forget that horrible discovery. My religious buddy just had to put 1 of the 3 baby cows his wife bought out of it's misery. It was too sick to feed and was suffering. But the main problem was he didn't really want more animals on their little farmette.......and cows happen to be his favorite. So even though he did it, he was practically welling up just telling me about it.
I remember the details of what I did, but I really don't remember how my husband looked when I found him or the exact sound of the thud his head made hitting the floor off the bed (I just remember thinking it sounded horrible) or what it was like doing cpr on him as the operator directed. For around a year certain things would make me cry. Now? It's 20 yrs ago. It is gone so if I needed to perform cpr again (I did take classes every 2 yrs) I could. So in a year or 3 see if he is as fresh with the tears. I mean, hell, every time I take a cat to be put down, I am bawling my eyes out. I feel sorry for the vet for all my water works. But down the road I don't cry.
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Post by abbey1227 on Apr 24, 2022 18:58:02 GMT
I mean, hell, every time I take a cat to be put down, I am bawling my eyes out. I feel sorry for the vet for all my water works. But down the road I don't cry.
Yeah, my wife has been really easy to set off for the last week. And she's rarely one for the water works.
I think this one getting to be our sweet 'old lady' .......and the wife getting older herself was just a really heartfelt combo on her part.
It kinda makes you question if you can continue to invest those emotions in more of them in the future, right?
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Post by merh on Apr 25, 2022 0:36:02 GMT
I mean, hell, every time I take a cat to be put down, I am bawling my eyes out. I feel sorry for the vet for all my water works. But down the road I don't cry.
Yeah, my wife has been really easy to set off for the last week. And she's rarely one for the water works.
I think this one getting to be our sweet 'old lady' .......and the wife getting older herself was just a really heartfelt combo on her part.
It kinda makes you question if you can continue to invest those emotions in more of them in the future, right?
I used to hate how manipulative Disney got in my kid's time. Lilo & stich. Finding Nemo. Ruthless conveyer belt to produce a particular reaction (laugh, gasp, etc) at the right moment. Pixar never did anything for me. Then Brave. Good god. I was fighting tears.all over. I remember the kid in front of me asking her daddy what was wrong. "Nothing, honey. Daddy's just crying" it does feel like more things affect me that way. I can see the manipulation, but still have to fight the tears. Pisses me off. Don't fake me into crying. My husband would throw it at me in a fight "go on. Squirt a few tears" I figure it was a taunt his brothers threw at him when he was little. So I couldn't cry. "Makeup is a woman's battle gear, Shirei. You know, Shirei...when a girl wears makeup, no matter what happens, she can never cry. Because no matter how light the makeup, if she cries, her face will become a disgraceful mess." Story of Saiunkoku That was another one. Damn, I knew the bad guy was going to die & he deserved it, but it was my favorite voice actor & he did it so damned well... We discussed this one. I think I got it wrong "We don't stop playing because we grow old, we grow old because we stop playing" Which goes with "Please do not take life quite so seriously—you surely will never get out of it alive" Elbert Hubbard. But there is a second similar one “It is well to make the best of this world, for you’ll never get out of it alive.” The Great Barrington News You should recognize the name. I wondered at the similarity to your little anti-covid guys. Except mine are a century old. Or this "TIL that classical music and metal fans have the most similar personalities, based on a study of 36,000 people in more than 60 countries. "Both have the same basic motivation: to hear something dramatic and theatrical, a shared 'love of the grandiose.'" (Today I Learned)
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Post by merh on Apr 25, 2022 20:12:58 GMT
Not to mention the population of France is like a quarter of ours 67,413,000 vs 331,893,745 Wait. The division comes out 4.92 so almost 1/5th ours
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Post by merh on Apr 25, 2022 20:16:09 GMT
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Post by merh on Apr 25, 2022 22:52:34 GMT
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Post by abbey1227 on Apr 26, 2022 2:38:28 GMT
Not to mention the population of France is like a quarter of ours 67,413,000 vs 331,893,745 Wait. The division comes out 4.92 so almost 1/5th ours
It wasn't until very recently that they lost the ability to count votes.
Blame the educational system? or something more sinister?
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Post by LokisMom on Apr 27, 2022 6:05:20 GMT
The Tea Parties were founded as opposition to any and everything Obama. Remember the man couldn’t even wear a tan suit without him being in the wrong.
Leave that stupid complaint about the suit out of it.........the TEA Party was about being Taxed Enough Already.
Just because the Left supports big Govt openly, doesn't excuse the blatant lies and support of big Govt by the GOP. They did a pretty fine job of scuttling the Tea Party movement at every turn, too.
Abs, you’re forgetting some history. I don’t remember them talking much about taxes so much as Obama’s tan suit and girly bicycle. And where did the Tea Party go? They got the tax breaks they needed? Or were they subsumed into Trump’s base? Feels shitty to be lied to.
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Post by merh on Apr 27, 2022 8:38:29 GMT
Not to mention the population of France is like a quarter of ours 67,413,000 vs 331,893,745 Wait. The division comes out 4.92 so almost 1/5th ours
It wasn't until very recently that they lost the ability to count votes.
Blame the educational system? or something more sinister?
So all these Republicans won their races legitimately, but the presidential section was fake?
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Post by abbey1227 on Apr 27, 2022 9:33:27 GMT
It wasn't until very recently that they lost the ability to count votes.
Blame the educational system? or something more sinister?
So all these Republicans won their races legitimately, but the presidential section was fake?
They haven't perfected stealing them all. Just the highest office was the priority this time around
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Post by merh on Apr 27, 2022 10:39:59 GMT
So all these Republicans won their races legitimately, but the presidential section was fake?
They haven't perfected stealing them all. Just the highest office was the priority this time around A larger margin in congress wasn't a goal?
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Post by abbey1227 on Apr 27, 2022 10:49:32 GMT
They haven't perfected stealing them all. Just the highest office was the priority this time around A larger margin in congress wasn't a goal?
I think they're happy just keeping the same old, same old Establishment types in place. it's really ONE party, not two
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Post by merh on Apr 27, 2022 15:54:09 GMT
A larger margin in congress wasn't a goal?
I think they're happy just keeping the same old, same old Establishment types in place. it's really ONE party, not two
That's why Build Back Better breezed through congress? Oh yeah, it didnt.
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Post by abbey1227 on Apr 28, 2022 1:44:13 GMT
I think they're happy just keeping the same old, same old Establishment types in place. it's really ONE party, not two
That's why Build Back Better breezed through congress? Oh yeah, it didnt.
Has the spending been reigned in? Has the foreign aid and meddling stopped? Has the border been locked down?
Oh, yeah........business as usual.
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Post by merh on Apr 28, 2022 9:40:42 GMT
That's why Build Back Better breezed through congress? Oh yeah, it didnt.
Has the spending been reigned in? Has the foreign aid and meddling stopped? Has the border been locked down?
Oh, yeah........business as usual.
The border has never been locked down, dude. The foreign aid can't be stopped. Buying friends. How many politicians on DC? Senators, representatives...each with their constituents/donors tugging on that sleeve? So we were supporting our ally Britain who was supporting an oil company.
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Post by abbey1227 on Apr 28, 2022 12:42:05 GMT
The border has never been locked down, dude. The foreign aid can't be stopped. Buying friends. How many politicians on DC? Senators, representatives...each with their constituents/donors tugging on that sleeve? So we were supporting our ally Britain who was supporting an oil company.
Not even during this time of the world's deadliest virus EVER? I guess we'll never have any real border security then.
That's correct.......we'll keep bribing other people to be our friends with borrowed money.
And there it is, just one example of the meddling we get up to overseas and in other countries' business. Hurray for the CIA. No wonder Kennedy wanted it busted up.....and no wonder his brains got splattered
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Post by merh on May 2, 2022 21:19:18 GMT
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Post by abbey1227 on May 3, 2022 3:53:46 GMT
It's a number game, merh
How many rich are there to give tax cuts to? Now compare that to how many poor with kids there are to give child tax credits? Who ends up buying more votes?
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Post by merh on May 3, 2022 5:44:35 GMT
It's a number game, merh
How many rich are there to give tax cuts to? Now compare that to how many poor with kids there are to give child tax credits? Who ends up buying more votes?
So better to give millionaires favors hoping they'll give the politicians donations than give $300/kid to poor? Its the GOP style. They don't have a replacement for the ACA because they don't want poor to get used to getting stuff like that from the government. Only millionaires deserve corporate welfare.
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